Lord of the Rings embodies welcome. companion needs to have uncon- fires the wild attraction that answers
Babies’ and dogs’ faces evidence tested access in a heart-space not your heart’s desire far beyond your
such love in motion. filled with children, work, hobbies imaginings.
In contrast, the sorting eyes we or a pet.
use in the workplace, constantly eval-
Paul and Patty Richards apply their
uating good versus bad, are on guard
What can lovers do to consciously extraordinary powers of awareness
against the unknown, warily seeking
keep the fire alive and the embers to see beyond the ordinary fabric
to squelch unpredictability. These are
glowing?
of physical reality in order to help
not helpful in setting up a relation-
individuals perceive and cultivate their
ship of a lifetime.
The hallmark of Cary Grant’s appeal
own greatness. Learn more about Wild
A welcoming, yes-based life em-
for women is that he was constantly
Attraction at SenteCenter.com.
braces new people and experiences.
paying attention to them, not out of
It loves and accepts the mystery in us
need, but in sophisticated apprecia-
more than what is known and enjoys
tion of the feminine. Men bring the
the inevitable surprise.
energy of attention that women thrive
on. Even simple rituals, like arriving
Why is it essential to constantly
each day declaring, “I love seeing you
assure your mate that he or she is
when I get home,” communicates that
you value her presence in your life.
your first choice?
Asking what she needs and respond-
Feeling chosen changes a person’s ing chivalrously, with a natural spring
energy. Something compressed inside in your step, acknowledges that you
lets go when you register that some- find her interesting. Men are relieved
one has selected you as the center of to understand that their service is
their universe. If you are fortunate, needed and appreciated and thrive
you first experienced this from a par- on hearing what a “Good job!” they
ent, as a child. Women, in particular, are doing.
want to feel cherished and claimed. Rather than ask “What attracts
When you declare your primary me?” ask “What changes me?” Avoid-
choice, all other choices line up ing change and continuing to do
around it. Getting behind your choice things your own way dulls an already
is transformational; it facilitates the tame attraction, but doing the work to
formation of a stunning relationship. connect with what delights your lover
A mate, lover, best friend and life keeps the relationship charged and
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