How does stuttering affect you as a pageant participant? Stuttering initially hurt my confidence as a Miss Texas contestant. The high-pressure, public speaking nature of competition intensified my stutter and insecurities with my speech. After suffering through holding myself to impossible standards, I decided to be open about my stutter. I now embrace this as something that makes me more unique and more competitive. Every time I step on stage, give an interview, speak to judges, or network with people in the pageant community, I’m actively battling this disorder. Choosing to be honest, and be proud of myself for fighting through has actually made me feel stronger and more confident.
How is your stuttering today? What do you do to control or manage it, if anything? I still stutter regularly, but to help me manage it, I try to stay relaxed and I back off of a word if I feel myself forcing it. On a deeper level, I remind myself that I am worthy, that others want to hear what I have to say, and to always practice patience with myself.
What are the biggest challenges of stuttering?
Speech blocking as a teenager may be one of the least fun things imaginable. Making friends or talking to a crush is hard enough without the added pressure of a speech block disorder, knowing that half the time your words won’t come out right. Stuttering as a child shattered my self-confidence. I feared public speaking, struggled with eye contact, and got accustomed to people looking away or leaving in the middle of a conversation.
What is your greatest accomplishment
with regard to stuttering? My dad told me recently that I was his hero. He told me he never would have expected the shy little girl who rarely spoke, to become someone who takes the stage and speaks to hundreds of people. Hearing that made me cry.
Based upon your experiences, what would
you like to tell children who stutter? Your voice matters! It doesn’t matter how long it takes for your words to come out. If people can’t be patient with you, they’re not worth your friendship. Believe in what you have to say—you are worthy.
" I remind myself that I am worthy, that others want
to hear what I have to say, and to always practice patience with myself."
Based upon your experiences, what would you tell parents of children who stutter? Be patient with your children and create a comfortable environment for them to express themselves. Avoid making them doubt their speaking abilities or fear social situations. Instead, encourage their voice and support their confidence.
What else should we know? Follow my journey on social media! Instagram: @missfortworthtx
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