TRANSITIONING IS STRESSFUL! 2
Mil CIV Tips for the transitioning military helicopter pilot
I remember the day my S1 (personnel officer) came into the standardization office and handed me my retirement orders. She asked if I was excited. I had been excited when I submitted for retirement, but now that the orders were in my hand, I was wondering what the hell I did!
No matter how prepared you
are for your transition, you will feel stress at some point during the process and it isn’t quickly relieved by getting some exercise and sleep. Transition stress is an increased feeling of pressure, anxiety, and/or loss of purpose and direction triggered by a significant period of change or adjustment. Specifically when talking about veterans, transition stress refers to the difficulty of adapting to life after discharge. It is a longing for the way service members lived while on active duty. Other symptoms include depression, loss of identity, difficulty finding meaningful employment, difficulty navigating relationships, and difficulty relating to civilians. Transitional stress is an “identity crisis.” Basically, when you are transitioning,
you are losing
your identity and being forced to develop a new one without the support network you had while in the military. If there is anything positive about your transition, it is that every service member goes through it, so you are not alone.
Military service is an experience unlike any other, and military life is significantly different than
civilian life. While on active duty, service members abide by others’ directives and orders. This level of structure does not exist in civilian careers, which can increase stress. Some transitioning service members have to determine how to translate their unique military proficiencies into relatable civilian skills and/or (re)learn skills that weren’t required in the military. Many service members enlisted after
high learning many civilian
school and will be skills
for
the first time: learning to relate to civilians who have never served, finding a way to transfer skills learned in the military into their new career, and establishing structure and routine on their own. In addition to work life, the service member may be settling into a new geographic location and need to create their community support network (e.g., doctor, dentist, church, barber/ hairstylist).
Transitional stress may lead you to accept the first job that comes along. This might not be a bad thing, but it’s more likely that it will not be a good fit for you. Or you might pick a job that doesn’t utilize
your skills, or one that
you just aren’t excited about. A quick piece of advice: I know it’s stressful trying to find a job while transitioning, but trust your gut. If a situation doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t.
Plan and prepare for your
transition in advance. If you haven’t already done so,
About the author: Marc Stanley retired from the U.S. Army in 2015 after 26 years, and transitioned into civilian life to become a corporate pilot flying the AW139. He regularly teaches military-to-civilian transition classes at industry events, and volunteers with veterans outreach programs.
18 Nov/Dec 2021 By Marc Stanley
begin to develop a network of professionals
in your chosen
industry. Visit local companies and sites where you would like to live. Plan on attending industry events and conventions like
Rotorcraft
Pro’s annual HeliSuccess career development
and networking
event, and/or the Helicopter Association International’s Heli- Expo and its Mil2Civ transition workshop.
Spouses also can attend many of these events and conventions. They can help you find out what assistance is available, get information you missed, or just give you a different perspective.
There are many
great things about these events, including the fact that many veterans who already made a successful transition are always in attendance. In my experience, they are more than happy to talk and help guide you through your transition and related stress.
Transitional stress is something every veteran has to experience at one point in their life. Hopefully you will be a little better prepared for it by knowing it is coming, learning how to prepare for it, and realizing that others have gone through it too. So don’t be afraid to reach out to your fellow veterans; they have your back and you have theirs.
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