siphon everything because you are the first wife! When you are in a family, you siphon everything because you are the first child. When you are in the position of a manager, you control people with an iron hand because you are the manager. You are the first in everything! You use stubbornness and lack of love to rule! That is why you have untold problems. Quarrelling and fighting follow you all through. Do you know that when you bully
people too much because you are in charge, you are the FIRST they would pretend to love you, but would go behind to plan evil against you? That is what happens to you with your position as FIRST, as AKPAN, as AFRICA, as Adiagha, (first daughter) as the first position in anything.