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Meet the Parents
By Joi-Marie McKenzie
holidays. You don’t want to be the one to ask about the cat
who passed away. Don’t get set up; do your research.
When you’re in a relationship, the holiday season is Tip #3: Be presentable. Remember, first impressions
always an important time. Whether it’s picking the right are definitely lasting, so you want to put your best foot
gift or picking the best spot to celebrate the New Year, forward. Make sure you’re wearing an appropriate outfit.
couples have a lot to think about when closing out the year. Save the low-cut top for a night alone, and shave off the
Still, one of the most important aspects of the season are five o’clock shadow. If you have second thoughts about
the holiday dinners and even more importantly, meeting the your attire, just think to yourself, “Would I wear this to my
parents. grandmother’s house?” If the answer is no, change your
If you are freaked out, don’t be. You’re not the first clothes.
person to go through this painstaking ordeal and yes, we
Tip #4: Don’t forget your Ps and Qs. Guys, remember
might as well face the fact that this isn’t going to be a walk
all those manners that your mom taught you? Make sure
in the park. Still, with these helpful hints at least you can
you carry the groceries, luggage or any heavy bags into the
enjoy yourself and make a good impression, while getting
house for your mate. Pull out her chair, ask if she and her
to know your two toughest critics.
mother would like something to drink and even bring some
Tip #1: Remember that preparation is key. Before you celebratory champagne or sparkling cider as a nice gesture.
actually go meet the parents, learn about them. Find out Ladies, bring that dessert that you’ve been dying to
where his mother went to school or discover which sports bake, offer to help clean up in the kitchen after the meal,
team her dad likes. Learning anecdotes about the fam- and don’t be afraid to sit and chat with grandma. You don’t
ily will help you spark a good conversation during dinner. want to overdo it but do be your charming and memorable
Also, the family will sure to be impressed that you already self.
know about them and that you’ve taken an interest in get-
Tip #5: If all else fails, remember to be yourself. You
ting to know them.
can breathe easy knowing that you’ve made it this far in
Tip #2: Get on one accord with your boo. Have a talk your relationship. And remember, if your partner likes you,
with your partner just to get on the same page. There may chances are so will his or her family.
be topics you should avoid during your time with the fam-
ily or a touchy subject that is never brought up during the Good luck!
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