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DOSSIER SPRING-CLEAN YOUR LIFE Are


you in Cause


Or are you in Effect?


Te notion of taking control of our lives is nothing new. However, I have never had it explained to me as well as when I did my NLP training. When it comes to how we look at life, we are all in one of two ‘positions’. Te positions are: ‘Cause’ and ‘Effect’.


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Reasons why you haven’t got the money you want: It’s the recession!


Reasons why you didn’t do well at school: I had bad teachers! Reasons why you aren’t healthy and fit: I don’t have time to look after myself!


I’m not saying they aren’t good reasons; however, reasons don’t get you the results you want in life! Being in ‘Effect’, means life happens to you. And it pulls you down. To be in ‘Cause’ means you take con- trol of what is happening to you. You are in charge of your present and future, whatever has happened to you in the past. We get to the place we are now because of all the conscious and unconscious choices we have made up until now.


by Laura Jordan


I think you will agree that many people these days seem to be in Ef- fect. It’s a comfortable place to be. However, it’s the place of ‘rea- sons’ …reasons why your life hasn’t turned out the way you want it…


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