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Choose the menu, buy ingredients,
about your setbacks can make you feel better.
Mention you are looking for a second job to
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if you are stressed out about money problems,
your kids are likely feeling the pressure, too.
Reassure them Mom and Dad are working on
From the simplest of
the problem and that everything will be okay.
have family meetings, try to be consistent about
to the most
what you can afford, and only make promises to sophisticatedpalate
your children you know you can keep. if you are
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no sMaLL Praise
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forward. And remind yourself you can dream
another dream! UTS
michele germain, LcsW,
Lmft, cbt, is a north www.dallyscatering.com
san diego psychotherapist,
speaker and author of “the
Jill Principle,” a guide for
women undergoing divorce
and relationship breakups.
for more information, visit
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