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Life coach Fléchelle Morin
answers your questions.
This month: How to create
harmony and compatibility
in your marriage or
romantic relationship
by flÉchEllE morIn
Q. I’m smart, successful and financially
secure, and my social calendar is booked
regularly with worthwhile prospects. But
lately it seems like whenever I’m with a man
on a date, it’s as if I’m speaking a foreign
D
it
c
language! We can be talking about current
h
t
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e
events, the economy or even our day at
a
r
m
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r
a
n
d
the office and before long I’ve noticed he’s
le
t
l
either tuned out or has turned into a glazed
ov
e
in
!
doughnut! I thought maybe it was me, that I
was just losing my touch…until I had dinner
with three girlfriends the other night and it
came out that we all have the same problem. many intelligent, accomplished and beautiful are innate to both men and women.) The
We are four intelligent, professional women women…women who are high achievers in masculine and feminine energies are polar
with satisfying careers—two are married, all other areas of their lives…who come to me opposites. For example, whereas the
one with children; the other single like me, with the very same quandary. Why is attaining masculine energy is giving, protecting and
but in a relationship—and at the end of a happiness with a quality man elusive to so cherishing, the feminine energy is receptive,
long day, we all just want what most men many fantastic women? In order to understand available and respecting. While the masculine
want—to relax with that someone special in the solution, we need to turn our attention energy is controlling, conquering and
our lives and be loved. I understand ‘Men are away from the stars and towards biology, competing, the feminine energy is patient,
from Mars; and Women are from Venus,’ but or more specifically, our masculine and passive and vulnerable. Masculine energy=
why does it seem like all the men in our lives feminine energies. dynamic; the feminine energy= magnetic.
are from another galaxy? For the context of this discussion, we will So here’s what happens to you, your
assign the masculine energy to a man and girlfriends, and, really, all women who have a
A. I understand your concerns and feel your the feminine energy to woman. (Although, job outside—or even inside the home—who
pain. In my coaching practice, I consult with in reality, masculine and feminine energies experience any type of stress during the day...
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